Blog

Ep 09: Lie #4: No One Cares About Me
podcast Jillian Ng podcast Jillian Ng

Ep 09: Lie #4: No One Cares About Me

This episode is all about the lie No One Cares About Me which is based in an experience from their childhood where they felt that an adult they trusted did not pay adequate attention due to them not being important. Kids who typically struggle with this lie, often are hungry for affirmation and are rarely satisfied by any quantity of time with the adults they worry care about them. This can make raising them difficult, especially alongside other children.

Read More
Ep 08: Lie #3: I Need To Take Care Of Myself
podcast Jillian Ng podcast Jillian Ng

Ep 08: Lie #3: I Need To Take Care Of Myself

This lie kids believe is based on the ideas that no one cares about what they need - emotionally or relationally. To fight this lie, we can show the kids struggling to believe they are worth caring about and that we care about how they feel. There are many frequent behaviors that a child displays when they are unaware this lie is present or are unable to communicate it. We can model the value of consent, build attachment and help the child develop awareness of their emotions and needs.

Read More
Ep 07: Lie #2: I Have To Provide For Myself
podcast Jillian Ng podcast Jillian Ng

Ep 07: Lie #2: I Have To Provide For Myself

Kids from Trauma often believe lies and have fears associated with these lies. This week we are combatting the Lie: I Have To Provide For Myself. When they did not have what they needed, kids who struggle with this lie learned they need to worry about adult sized things.

Read More