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Ep 08: Lie #3: I Need To Take Care Of Myself
This lie kids believe is based on the ideas that no one cares about what they need - emotionally or relationally. To fight this lie, we can show the kids struggling to believe they are worth caring about and that we care about how they feel. There are many frequent behaviors that a child displays when they are unaware this lie is present or are unable to communicate it. We can model the value of consent, build attachment and help the child develop awareness of their emotions and needs.
Ep 07: Lie #2: I Have To Provide For Myself
Kids from Trauma often believe lies and have fears associated with these lies. This week we are combatting the Lie: I Have To Provide For Myself. When they did not have what they needed, kids who struggle with this lie learned they need to worry about adult sized things.
Ep 06: Lie #1: Something Bad Will Happen
Kids from Trauma often believe lies and have fears associated with what will happen. In this episode we are unpacking the Lie: Something Bad Will Happen. This lie is hard to fight, because we do know that more bad things actually will happen to our kids. But, they do not constantly need to be worried about bad things happening. They need to know we are with them when they do.
Ep 05: Fighting the Lies
This episode is all about combatting the lies kids who have lived through trauma believe. We will chat about why kids believe these lies, the six main lies (we will be unpacking the next six weeks) & how to put ourselves on the same side of the battle against lies as our children. This preview of the series will allow you to start to get an idea of why these beliefs are so disruptive and consuming.
Ep 04: Created For This
This week, we will discuss our role as we walk alongside our foster and adoptive kids. We will reflect on God’s faithfulness to surprise us in unexpected ways, His incredible love for each child in our care and how we can offer our children to God and allow the responsibility of them to be His as Hannah offered her son whom she prayed fervently for to the Lord….
Ep 03: Biological Love
Loving kids who are not biologically yours comes with unique roadblocks and at times, the child’s biological family can lead to difficult discussions, lots of feelings and heartbreak. Walking alongside biological families of the kids in your care allows you to bond, connect with, and relate to your child during the transition into foster care and decades after they are adopted…
Ep 02: Knowing Your Kid
This week on the podcast, we will explore the reasons that shape how I view & interact with kids - especially those with backgrounds including trauma, foster care or adoption…
Ep 01: The SeveNgs
Before we talk about how to love those who have been through so much, allow me to share a little about our how we met our kids. In this episode, you will learn about how I grew up, how I got to know my husband - Ben, and how our family grew through foster care & adoption…
Trailer: You Have What It Takes - A Podcast
It all begins with you. You are the one He chose you to be a foster or adoptive parent…
